Clitoris Removal Or Female Circumcision In Africa!

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May 26-2011:


Clitoris Removal Or Female Circumcision In Africa!


Some Gay/Homosexual men are always complaining about the stigma against them in this world. But most Gay/Homosexual men are allowed to indulge their sexual preferences, (at least in the developed world). Free from imprisonment, mutilation, or castration.

This is not so for thousands of young girls in some African states. They are expected to get their clitoris removed before, or fail to get married altogether. This is a traditional practice, and in some places, the mothers of these young women actually FORCE their girl children to undergo this brutal mutilation of her clitoris.

It is believed that after circumcision the girl would not desire any other man but her husband. But what happens is that after the clitoris is removed surgically, (mostly by some crude tribal midwife or elder woman, with a knife). Some girls bleed profusely afterwards. And some girls even die if the procedure goes badly too.

The circumcised girl is unable to feel or be stimulated sexually after being circumcised. All that she is expected to do, is provide her husband children, and allow him to be sexually satisfied whenever he so desire. Her sexual satisfaction is of no importance to her husband in these cultures.

So Gay men when you are advocating for changes to STIGMA and social ridicule, consider your sisters in Africa who do not have this right, or privilege. Or even the support, mostly in these regions where it is established, and are rigidly enforced!

Derryck.
NYC.

Who Is Qualified To Speak For The Black American Homosexual Community?

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May 21-2011.

Who Is Qualified To Speak For The Black American Homosexual Community?

Firstly, Homosexuality in the Black American communities are as varied in concept, as it is in complexion. And it is certainly not homogenous either.

Secondly, I don't know if there is any desire within the Black Homosexual Communities to want someone, or some Role Model for us to aspire to or emulate.

Thirdly, Homosexuals in the Black Homosexual Communities desire different things, different Role Models, and different Support systems.

For example, most of those Homos who are religions freaks, or consider themselves church going Christians, are not inclined to identify with the rest of the Homosexual community. Especially those who are Openly Homosexual.

And would not appreciate the idea or openness to their sexual identity or preferences. They would much prefer it to be left hidden, or operate on the Down Low. Their Christian upbringing or beliefs hinder their ability to accept themselves as Homosexuals, God's children that were created so, and loved for whom they are.

So this guilt will always stalk them whenever such issues like homosexual identity, behavior, and acceptance, comes up.

Finally, Don Lemon's desire or preference for a White or Caucasian lover is his own desire and his own choice. Why should anyone feel offended by his choice of a Lover or Fuck buddy?

No human in his or her right mind can pre-determine who or what ethnic gender he or she will be sexually attracted to. Love and Sexual attraction comes with some very subtle triggers. And it hits you like a thunderbolt, so suddenly that you ask yourself after it happens this question.

Who would have believed that I would be attracted to so and so, or find so and so sexually or physically attractive?

That is life, and the human organism can never be fully comprehended, much less placed in a single category sexually, or otherwise.

Derryck.
NYC.

Don Lemon (CNN Anchor) Comes Out The Closet At 45 Years Of Age!

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May 17-2011.

My response to:

Don Lemon (CNN Anchor) Comes Out The Closet At 45 Years Of Age!

So What? Does it make any difference for his personal, public, or working life?

I just don't know! But sometimes I wonder what motivates some of us (especially Black Americans), to feel the need to do this self sexual orientation revelation thing?

The White Gay/Homosexuals mostly feel that it is necessary to do so, for several reasons, that most of us are au fait with. But for Blacks generally, revealing one's sexual orientation or preferences are a totally different thing altogether.

Blacks all over the world still have a hard time acknowledging men who have sex with men as NORMAL behavior. Be it from a religious or cultural perspective, it will always be a big deal for Black men and women alike to accept and appreciate.

So if Don Lemon wants to tell the world about his sexual needs, or desires, that is his choice. But I still cannot see what difference it will make for any Black male or female who are homosexual, closeted, or in denial about it.

Derryck.
NYC.

Requesting Validation For HIV?

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May 04-2011.

Requesting Validation For HIV?

To ask a potential Fuck buddy or Lover to show you some validation for his or her HIV status is most ridiculous, to say the least.

Could anyone show validation for HIV, Gonorrhea, Syphilis, Herpes, Hepatitis-A-B-C, and Chlamydia, up to and at that point in time, before you are about to engage in sexual intercourse (of any sort)?

Whenever I see and read such nonsense I wonder why people believe or promote this ridiculous idea?

Is it because the CDC advocates for this position?

Or is it because those who do, lack the intellectual ability to decipher what is sensible and what is nonsensical behavior or enquiry?

Finally, if you intend to indulge in any sexual activity. It is your responsibility to do whatever you feel confident doing with your partner sexually. Regardless of what he/she says to you.

Everyone is liable to be infected with any sexually transmitted disease, regardless of their supposed fidelity, safe practices, or commitment to one partner.

Derryck.
NYC.

The Rollingstone Magazine Editor (Giles Muhame) Crusade against homosexuals!

ATTENTION:

Please take political action now, by E-mailing the authorities in UGANDA,
as per information listed hereunder.

Sincerely,

Derryck.

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Subject:
The Rollingstone Magazine Editor (Giles Muhame) Crusade against homosexuals!


Your Excellency,

Is is with deep concern and trepidation for those who are Homosexual or Self-identified Homosexuals, and those who prefer to be left alone, or is under cover. To have a fellow citizen and Ugandan, indulge in blackmailing them because he thinks that being homosexual is disgusting, to say the least.

Who gave him the authority to indulge in self-righteousness, or the moral authority to decide who is Good in the eyes of God/Allah, or who should be dammed to Hell or Purgatory?

This kind of bigotry is inhumane, wicked, and infringes on the Civil and Human Rights of all those whom he targeted currently, and intends to target in the future.

I understand that some Judicial stay of further publications was issued against him to desist the continuation of this crusade. But the mental and psychological damage has already been done to those he outed without their expressed permission.

This man should be brought to Litigation for mental and psychological cruelty to others, with great haste.

Sincerely,

Is Gender Pre-determination A Good Thing?

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August 03-2010:

Is Gender Pre-determination A Good Thing?

Gender Preference:

This is a medical precedure that can be done to ensure the preferred Sexual Identity of the unborn fetus. In some countries like China, Japan, and in South Asia. The preference for the Male child is greater, because he will guarantee a handsome DOWRY when he is about to get married. And his parents will not have to worry about their son not being able to get married, because of age or poverty.

Why Are Boys Preferred To Girls In These Cultures?

Historically, as I mentioned above, the male child is expected to care for the entire family unit after marriage. Like careing for the elders, the sick, his parents and grandparents, for as long as they are alive. This is a cultural expectation that all boys are expected to honor. The girls are not expected to do so, because they will be married (supposedly), and that responsibility will be on the shoulders of their husbands.

Does Pre-determining Gender Identity Upset The National Gender Balance?

I believe that it does!
In China currently, after decades of Communist Policy to encourage and financially compensate women for male children. This have created a terrible shortage of females in the general society. In Japan too this phenomenon of Male preference is also creating a serious shortage of females.

Coupled with the ever growing longevity of the elderly. A reversal of National Policy in both societies are being contemplated to reverse the hitherto Gender Preference Policy. And allow for natural selection, or whatever gender nature produces to take place, without medical intervention.

What Are The Dis-advantages And Advantages Of Gender Selection?

In countries that have allowed gender pre-determination to occur, the males are enjoying this societal privilege, at the general expense of their female counterparts. Some males get married after paying a very meagre dowry.

While the Girl's family have to come up with whatever cost or Dowry the Male match asks for or demands. And when you are poor, with several daughters to be married. This can be devastating for that family. Many end up killing their female born, or selling them to anyone who is willing to pay for domestic help in their homes for a contracted period, or forever!

Derryck.
NYC.

Homosexuality Within The Caribbean!

July 10-2010:

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Homosexuality Within The Caribbean!

Homosexuality or Men and Women Loving or Having Sex With their own Gender, have been the reality within this region for decades, or long before I was born, and will contnue to be a reality long after I am gone. Christianity with all of it's prejudices have been the modus operandi which was always used to ridicule this fact as a plague that had to be eradicated or quarantined. But yet, many Christian converts, preachers, nuns, and pastors alike are knowingly living a closeted homosexual life, while a the same time, castigating it as Sinful or Abominable.

The decision to castigate homosexuals/lesbians in this region, is one method used by the Self-righteous among us, (Christians and Non-Christians alike), to make Homosexuals feel Guilty, Ashamed of their sexuality, and indulge in Underground Sexual activities, which are oftentimes very harmful and lethal to their personal safety, livelihood, and self image.

Is Homosexuality A personal Choice or Genetic?

Homosexuality is currently accepted within socio/psychological disciplines as genetic. One is born with the genes that makes the individual sexually attracted to another of his or her own gender. This is as normal as someone who finds someone of the opposite gender sexually appealing.

Religion has no Authority or Right to determine who has the right to be so-called Normal, Heterosexual, or Evil. These Christian. Islamic, or other religious views were coined to castigate those that did not, or does not confirm to the rules of that or those religions, from time immemorial.

Homosexuals Have Rights Too:

All Homosexuals have rights too, that must be respected within all societies. And if any legislation is enacted to castigate, imprison, behead, whip, or imprison homosexuals/lesbians. That society and law MUST be Abhorred, and stringent efforts made by all concerned citizens to ensure that it is rescinded or repealed.

Personal blackmail or slander against any homosexual/lesbian MUST be challenged in a Court Of Law, and the accuser made to explain therein his/her reason for so doing.

Freedom Of Speech is also a right for every individual. But it does not give anyone the right to indulge in blackmail, in order to defame, denigrate, or castigate any individual/s within that society, or from enjoying the personal safety, privacy, social standing, or respect he/she deserves.

Derryck S. Griffith.
Guyanese-NYC.